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Dear Mita,
I had been working for a firm for 17 years but when it was time for me to switch tracks, I discovered that the company that I worked for is not as loyal towards its employees as it expects its workers to be. I had to leave the firm with empty hands. In fact, even my salary for five months has still not been paid to me. The owner of the firm had several times assured me that I'd get my fair dues but he seems to continually forget his promise. What should I do to ensure that I get what I am owed?
 In a Mess
Dear Mess,
You should consult a lawyer and know about your rights as an employee. Look into the HR policy of the firm and also your appointment letter. What your employer is doing is illegal as per the labor law or company law. There is no question of being loyal to the employee or not. This is a matter of your right and what the law of the land guarantees to every employee. Please consult a lawyer who should send your ex-boss a legal notice.
 
Dear Mita,
I am a 30-year-old man with a loving wife and the sweetest daughter. I lost my job around four months back when the company I worked for was forced to shut down and am still waiting to be employed. I have applied to a number of jobs but to no avail. This sudden and drastic change in my life has shattered me and the thought of not being able to provide for my family is killing me. I am contemplating suicide but the thought of my family doesn't let me take this step. The last couple of months have been particularly terrifying as I have sunk deep into depression and don't want to speak to anyone or even play with my daughter, something that always cheered me up earlier. I know that suicide is not an option but what can I do to come out of this slump. Please help me.
Unable to Go On
Dear Unable,
Please get a hold of yourself. This not the end of the world, and I mean it. Far worse things can happen such as life threatening illness or accidents in the family. No doubt providing for loved ones is a serious issue and you have done this all along. I am sure your family appreciates this and is willing to support you in your bad time. What about your wife? If she has a job and is able to manage the present expenses then you should let her. Instead of going into depression which is self-destructive, spend time looking for a job more proactively. Please remember your behavior is probably causing more harm to your family than your unemployment. If you are qualified you will soon get a job. The job might not be exactly what you wanted but any job will help you get other employment opportunities. So please snap out of it and don't even think or utter anything as terrible as suicide!